“Does sex on the first date mean a lady is cheap?” As popular as it is, I still don’t understand why we have to ask this question. If a lady decides to screw a man on the first date, why should it be an issue? Why is she the only one called “Cheap”? Did she have sex with herself? What about the guy she had sex with? Is he not cheap too?
There are guys that sleep around a lot. They don’t mind having sex with any lady the first day they meet, yet they turn around and badmouth these ladies that they have slept with for having loose morals.
This doesn’t make sense in any way. If being a slut is a bad thing, then you are as slutty as they are. You guys had sex together, so, who the hell are you to judge them?
“Does sex on the first date mean the lady is cheap?” I took this question to social media and got some answers.
“Not at all. I feel she does that because she loves me. A girl that doesn’t love, if you like, let her come 10 times, nothing for you”.
“Sometimes women have sex on a first date because they don’t see a future with you”.
“No, it doesn’t mean a lady is cheap at all. A lady might not have sex with you on the first day but she can be super cheap than the ones who give it all up on the first day”.
“I think it means she is grounded enough to know what she wants and brave enough to pursue it”.
“Lol…I don’t think so…People need to grow up from seeing people as cheap…it was gonna happen anyway…so what the fuck?! They are cheap too for having sex with a lady during a first date…We both fucked each other…and we both enjoyed it…we should take the same ownership of whatever shit we did. This sexual judging has a lot of implications on sexual orientation. A lot of women can’t tell what they want and how they want it because they are afraid they will be judged”
For me, I think sex on the first date means that the lady found the guy interesting and sexy enough to want to be intimate with him. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. That does not make her cheap in any way.
Now, do not read this post and start fucking guys on the first date. If it doesn’t sit well with you, then DON’T DO IT!! It’s okay if you want to go on several dates with a guy before getting down with him.
Thing is, when it comes to sex, it’s always better to “DO YOU”. Understand and act on your values rather than playing roles based on society’s expectations. And trust me, if you are confident in your decisions, you will be able to look past the slut-shaming because, at the end of the day, you were true to yourself. No one decided for you.
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